Coming out of the broom closet?

I'm one of those Christians who tended to judge Wiccan's, Occults, Pagans, Satanists etc, mainly because my religion/ faith teaches that I mustn't accept certain things which I umed about these religions and lack of knowledge about them. It also doesn't help that so many of them are so secretive about what they believe and are very much into self-gratification, which is the opposite of what Christians are supposed to be. But I don't think I should judge anybody of these religions or faiths. I have also been put off the Wiccans because of my mother-in-law who is a closet witch and since the day she met me she has had all her guns smoking for me, not to mention stabbed me all over, time and time again with her knives (figuritively). Then she'd pretend to be so sincerely sorry for what she's done only to go straight back and do it all over again to me. Yet I always forgive. It kinda makes all your hairs on your neck stand up on end. But I would be very pleased if you could become my friend and e-mail me so that I could find out more about your religion, but be warned I will ask many, many questions and many personal ones too.